Need some serious advice[views:6738][posts:91]________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:20am - WELLWELLWELL ""] So i've been going out with this girl for years...Then she tells me she wants to be alone on new years eve and breaks up with me. But then she says she wants to take a break. Should i just leave her be and let her decide what she wants.. or am i just putting hope into something that's over and done with? Ive never been through something this tough so any advice from someone thats experienced this would be great. |
| ___________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:27am - brian_dc ""] don't get your hopes up. Don't get obsessed. Open your eyes to other people. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:27am - ouchdrummer ""] I would say she is just trying to soften the blow by saying she wants to take a break. The longer you hold out hope for this sort of thing, the more it will drag on and hurt more. Now for some more advice, if your looking for relationship advice, RTTP is not the place to look. I would be suprised if this thread didn't turn into a poopy joke. |
| ___________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:27am - brian_dc ""] nice guy patrol |
| _______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:29am - Yeti ""] this thread is gay. ink stink poop fart out. |
| _______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:29am - Yeti ""] Rappin' Ronnie needs advice. "well...well...well well...well". |
| ________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:31am - TheBloodening ""] Ya drummer is right, end it now my last relationship started exactly like this until the point where i said fuck it and moved on, then she tried crawling back...they always do...plus you'll be more badass if girls are crawling back to you. Think of it this way, now you can hook up with more hipster, skinny jean, multicolored haired hoes! |
| ___________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:32am - largefreakatzero ""] RAYP |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:32am - arilliusbm ""] go to craigslist, go to casual encounters, and find yourself a whore to fuck. it will ease the pain |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:32am - goatcatalyst ""] When they say they want a break, that means they wanna get banged out by strange dick. Only one cure for that situation... Fresh pussy. By hook or by crook - go get yours... I hear this current crop of 18 year olds are wanton whores... Have at it. |
| _______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:33am - Yeti ""] they only like it in the pooper. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:35am - ouchdrummer ""] ya, i heard all the tight-teenies are doin it in the pooper. |
| ________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 10:36am - TheBloodening ""] HEY GUESS WHAT? PAPER tonite at harpers ferry, go get yours (18 yo college chicks wanting to put out) |
| ____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:00am - dreadkill ""] is this livejournal? you've never been through something this tough? are you 17? your life must be pretty carefree and painless if this is the toughest thing you've ever had to deal with. |
| __________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:03am - Conservationist ""] WELLWELLWELL said:am i just putting hope into something that's over and done with [img] |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:05am - ouchdrummer ""] ahahaahhahahahahhahaha |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:06am - ouchdrummer ""] I vote that as the funniest thing conservationist has ever done. |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:29am - the_reverend ""] I'm 99.99% sure that she fucked someone else |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:30am - ouchdrummer ""] the_reverend said:I'm 99.99% sure that she fucked someone else well yeah. wanting to be alone new years only means one thing. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:31am - ouchdrummer ""] well it could mean one other thing, it could mean she wanted to fuck two or more people new years. who knows? |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:32am - arilliusbm ""] she's got 3 suave euro cocks dangling in her face right now |
| _________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:43am - xmikex ""] Cut the shit and break up with this girl. I'll give you 3-1 odds that she was with some other dude on New Years. You're probably a way nicer dude than she's used to dating, and the guy she's diddling right now is some greasebag dick who gets her juices flowing by popping his collar and revving his engine on his IROC (or whatever dumb shit that she secretly pretends to hate). She's probably reluctant to give up the security and stability of dating someone who actually gives a shit about her, but because she's a girl her whole self esteem is based off of other guys wanting to bang her, and her giving them the illusion that they can. Her indecisiveness is the only reason she wants to "take a break." That or she wants you to be the one to break up with her so she can feel better about basically stabbing you in the back. Call her bluff, man up, and kick this girl out of your life. I don't know who you are but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're better than this. Don't take any shit. |
| __________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:46am - c.DeAD ""] Ignore her completely and don't call her whatever you do. That will make you look desperate. If she doesn't get back to you, just forget about it and tough it out. |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:50am - SkinSandwich ""] Man, that fart I just cut was fucking wretched. Now that is the toughest thing I have ever been through. |
| __________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:52am - Martins ""] Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. It had to be said. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:55am - ouchdrummer ""] ^^^^because it was true.^^^^ |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:56am - Josh_Martin ""] Nobody told him to kick her in the cunt?? You are all fags. fucking place is turning into an emo backpack board. |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:56am - goatcatalyst ""] She may have had a heavy conscience venturing into the wild world of double anal while "attached". |
| ____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:56am - dreadkill ""] Ha, @ SS's fart comment this board has become Dear Abby |
| __________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:57am - Martins ""] Indeed. In general, I have to say I hate women. There are so many girls I want to put it in as hard as I possibly can, hopefully hard enough to break their pelvises. You know, rough shit. Bloody. Not really, but I do hate bitches and I want to fuck the cute ones but they all seem dumb. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:58am - ouchdrummer ""] the best move hands down is to fuck her little sister. |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:01pm - goatcatalyst ""] Give it ten years, lil shaver... when all the cute ones are extra bitchy. 28-33 is when a woman's "bitch" faculties fully ripen. |
| _________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:11pm - xmikex ""] I forgot the most important part of the plan. It's imperative that after you dump her you listen to Motorhead as loud as you possibly can and stare the world down like you're B.A. Baracus laying pitty on every fool you see as you think about the ill life decision you just made. |
| ____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:14pm - dreadkill ""] the part about motorhead is the most important part of the plan, even moreso than staring people down. |
| __________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:15pm - Conservationist ""] ouchdrummer said: the_reverend said:I'm 99.99% sure that she fucked someone else well yeah. wanting to be alone new years only means one thing. It's a pretty transparent excuse on her part. He's better off finding a lady who can lie with more verve. |
| __________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:27pm - Martins ""] goatcatalyst said:Give it ten years, lil shaver... when all the cute ones are extra bitchy. 28-33 is when a woman's "bitch" faculties fully ripen. Was that to me? I don't want to wait till I'm 29 to really hate women. I really hate them now. |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:41pm - immortal13 ""] This thread is pretty gay. Someone post some boob pics now. |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:42pm - JustinSteele ""] The most important thing is to maintain a good relationship dynamic. When someone says they aren't secure in the relationship it usually has much more to do with them than it does the other person. The fact is that we're not meant to be with just one person (it's incredibly rare to find any one you get along with most of the time) and when you force it you just create an untenable situation. So, that doesn't mean give up on monogamy, just accept that both people have to be into it and want to stay together. She might come around and want you back but the dynamic will always be in her favor at that point. Probably best to let it go and try something new. No end of a relationship is a failure, they are all opportunities to learn more about yourself. |
| _______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:43pm - Yeti ""] less advice, more poop. |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:43pm - JustinSteele ""] JustinSteele said:The most important thing is to maintain a good relationship dynamic. When someone says they aren't secure in the relationship it usually has much more to do with them than it does the other person. The fact is that we're not meant to be with just one person (it's incredibly rare to find any one you get along with most of the time) and when you force it you just create an untenable situation. So, that doesn't mean give up on monogamy, just accept that both people have to be into it and want to stay together. She might come around and want you back but the dynamic will always be in her favor at that point. Probably best to let it go and try something new. No end of a relationship is a failure, they are all opportunities to learn more about yourself. Fuck, I'm gay... |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:50pm - immortal13 ""] A little. |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:52pm - JustinSteele ""] very... i could just delete my post... no, i need to come to terms |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:54pm - immortal13 ""] Acceptance is the first step my friend. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 12:56pm - ouchdrummer ""] Yeti said:less advice, more poop. i agree. Especially since you already got appropriate advice stated 5 ways from 10 people. Which is shocking, there usually is MUCH more poop. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:11pm - the_reverend ""] did Danielle Steele just post? and that right there folks is the pinnacle of funny you will get from me for the week. you should probably not read any of my posts until monday. |
| _________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:12pm - ScmFck ""] Just ask yourself, What would Ted Bundy do? |
| __________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:15pm - brian_dc ""] slit her throat and then your own oh, wrong board |
| ______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:20pm - Yeti ""] RAPE HER OR YOU'RE A PUSSY |
| ___________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:22pm - FuckIsMySignature ""] ScmFck said:Just ask yourself, What would Ted Bundy do? HAHA TB that bitch fo real! |
| ________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:25pm - xmikex ""] Cynicism and rape aside, the right thing for this guy to do is to recognize that for better or worse this relationship probably shouldn't be happening. Life is short, and grudges last a long time. Bow out gracefully and move on. |