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[QUOTE="whiskey_weed_and_women:344080"]It was a horrifically sad moment. Bukowski once described walking into a lonely dark strip club with his last $0.38, an old worn out dancer gracing the stage, and a four-man band playing an old tired dusty song in a sad desperate attempt to make everyone forget. Then the band gave it one more push, one last desperate thrust, and “really spanked her ass” trying to remind the dancer, trying to remind the audience, of what they once were. It was desperately sad and lonely. And he couldn’t get it up. That was the feeling when Carl proposed and when he and Eva married. The band didn’t spank anybody’s ass, but you could have choked on the stench of desperation. They were two lonely souls scarred by life, cruelly disfigured by it. You couldn’t help but think, “my god, they found each other”, and everyone knew that if life had been just a little less cruel to either Carl or Eva, this proposal, this engagement, this marriage would never have happened. By they resigned themselves to each other. Woody Allen said, "Marriage is the loss of hope." And it is. Like Carl and Eva, many people give up. Lose hope that life has anything better to offer and come to terms with the sad reality that they have it as good as it will ever be for them. So what’s the extension of all this? It does not really matter who you end up with, so long as you resign yourself to making it work, and doing that means losing hope. Losing hope that you deserve better, losing hope that a prince or princess is waiting for you, and that’s why the key to a successful marriage is precisely that loss of hope –resignation to the fact that you will not find anyone better, that this is as good as you are going to get, and when you have finally, at last given up all hope, when you have both truly finally fully surrender, then, you have the makings of a successful relationship. So come on in, the tiki bar is open. And leave your hopes and dreams at the door; we are dancing the desperation samba and serving till late. True - Bukowski one of lorca's best lines is, "agony, always agony ..." think of this when you kill a cockroach or pick up a razor to shave or awaken in the morning to face the sun. [/QUOTE]
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