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[QUOTE="blue:867262"][QUOTE="brian_dc:866704"]don't get your hopes up. Don't get obsessed. Open your eyes to other people.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE="xmikex:866785"]Cut the shit and break up with this girl. I'll give you 3-1 odds that she was with some other dude on New Years. You're probably a way nicer dude than she's used to dating, and the guy she's diddling right now is some greasebag dick who gets her juices flowing by popping his collar and revving his engine on his IROC (or whatever dumb shit that she secretly pretends to hate). She's probably reluctant to give up the security and stability of dating someone who actually gives a shit about her, but because she's a girl her whole self esteem is based off of other guys wanting to bang her, and her giving them the illusion that they can. Her indecisiveness is the only reason she wants to "take a break." That or she wants you to be the one to break up with her so she can feel better about basically stabbing you in the back. Call her bluff, man up, and kick this girl out of your life. I don't know who you are but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're better than this. Don't take any shit. [/QUOTE] [QUOTE="JustinSteele:866824"]The most important thing is to maintain a good relationship dynamic. When someone says they aren't secure in the relationship it usually has much more to do with them than it does the other person. The fact is that we're not meant to be with just one person (it's incredibly rare to find any one you get along with most of the time) and when you force it you just create an untenable situation. So, that doesn't mean give up on monogamy, just accept that both people have to be into it and want to stay together. She might come around and want you back but the dynamic will always be in her favor at that point. Probably best to let it go and try something new. No end of a relationship is a failure, they are all opportunities to learn more about yourself.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE="the_reverend:866911"]I realized grudges are stupid and stopped.[/QUOTE] the above statements are some of the best advice nuggets you could possibly get. wow, RTTP providing people with actual direction with matters of the heart. seriously though, the girl was more than likely either already cheating on you or already had the new guy on deck. you need to get her out of your life and move on, yeah itll suck but ya have to deal. after finding out my gf of 2+ years was cheating on me at the end of our relationship, i promptly told her to get the fuck out of my life and never talk to me ever again. couple months later, im fine if not better than ive ever been. yeah it sucked with all the betrayal blah blah blah, but id definetly rather not have people of that caliber in my life. i doubt youd want them in yours either. dont worry, shell get hers. karmas a bitch like that. [/QUOTE]
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