Need some serious advice[views:6778][posts:91]______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:36pm - the_reverend ""] around 2001-2002, I realized grudges are stupid and stopped. thought I've been miffed about the band terror for the past 2 CDs. |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:41pm - TheBloodening ""] i don't see this kid anymore posting, i beleive we have scared him gay. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 1:55pm - the_reverend ""] wow, and my advice was to start sucking wangs cause it pays well well well. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:14pm - JustinSteele ""] my advice was to start sucking wangs cause it feels right... |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:28pm - swamplorddvm ""] Alone on new years? Slut. Leave her. |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:33pm - ouchdrummer ""] i was living with/dating this total cunt (my taste in women is impeccable) i was cooking till 1am on new years, she went to a party with MY friends and was supposed to come home. I waited up, she didn't show. So about 3 am, i went walking the streets of Allston (i lived right across the st. from the ICC) found a drunk whore looking for some cock, brought her home and gave it to her. Made sure not to wake her until my GF showed up and walked in. haha. |
| _______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:33pm - dftg ""] xmikex said:Cut the shit and break up with this girl. I'll give you 3-1 odds that she was with some other dude on New Years. You're probably a way nicer dude than she's used to dating, and the guy she's diddling right now is some greasebag dick who gets her juices flowing by popping his collar and revving his engine on his IROC (or whatever dumb shit that she secretly pretends to hate). She's probably reluctant to give up the security and stability of dating someone who actually gives a shit about her, but because she's a girl her whole self esteem is based off of other guys wanting to bang her, and her giving them the illusion that they can. Her indecisiveness is the only reason she wants to "take a break." That or she wants you to be the one to break up with her so she can feel better about basically stabbing you in the back. Call her bluff, man up, and kick this girl out of your life. I don't know who you are but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're better than this. Don't take any shit. listen to this guy. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:35pm - JustinSteele ""] There is much wisdom in what xmikex says. women are shit. |
| ____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:36pm - immortal13 ""] I'll stop being a dick for the moment and give some good advice...listen to most (and I stress most) of these people and forget about her because as much as I hate to say it, she already forgot about you. Who wants to be alone on New Years? I hate being alone in general. Forget her man and move on. |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:38pm - ouchdrummer ""] xmikex is right, and the worst part is that she will laugh at you with her friends, and her new IROC driving fuckbuddy if you let her get away with it. |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:39pm - ouchdrummer ""] well, i dig being alone. I sat in this year on new years and read the last book in the star wars series i was reading... wait a minute, don't listen to me, i'm pathetic... and proud of it. |
| ________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:55pm - DestroyYouAlot ""] DO A BARREL ROLL |
| ___________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:57pm - dreadkill ""] ha |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 2:59pm - TheBloodening ""] DO A BARRELL ROLL OVER A HEAPING PILE OF SHAVED VAGINAS....NAKED. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 3:04pm - JustinSteele ""] I'd love to youtube that, but I'm at work |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 3:17pm - the_reverend ""] I've been alone plenty of new years... who gives a shit. I even did a new years radio show alone um.. last year? |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 4:14pm - AUTOPSY_666 ""] My girlfriend just got out of a long 5-yr bad relationship with a drunk boy and she is now ecstatic to be dating a real man. [img] I will make her my Halloween bride. |
| __________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 4:16pm - largefreakatzero ""] AUTOPSY_666 said: and she is now ecstatic to be dating a real man. So who is she dating? |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 4:38pm - AUTOPSY_666 ""] Only a hillbilly would have to ask... |
| __________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 5:27pm - grizloch ""] FIGHT HER OR YOU ARE A PUSSY ...I can't believe that took 6 hours |
| ___________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 5:28pm - dreadkill ""] grizloch said:FIGHT HER OR YOU ARE A PUSSY ...I can't believe that took 6 hours someone said "rape her or you're a pussy" earlier. |
| __________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 5:35pm - grizloch ""] oh... |
| _______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 6:07pm - dftg ""] AUTOPSY_666 said:My girlfriend just got out of a long 5-yr bad relationship with a drunk boy and she is now ecstatic to be dating a real man. [img] I will make her my Halloween bride. you put a blonde wig and a groucho marx nose on skeletor and called it your girlfriend. |
| ____________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 8:03pm - Osama been Latent ""] JustinSteele said:The most important thing is to maintain a good relationship dynamic. When someone says they aren't secure in the relationship it usually has much more to do with them than it does the other person. The fact is that we're not meant to be with just one person (it's incredibly rare to find any one you get along with most of the time) and when you force it you just create an untenable situation. So, that doesn't mean give up on monogamy, just accept that both people have to be into it and want to stay together. She might come around and want you back but the dynamic will always be in her favor at that point. Probably best to let it go and try something new. No end of a relationship is a failure, they are all opportunities to learn more about yourself. Jesus, that was fucking lucid. What are you, a professor? |
| ____________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 8:06pm - Osama been Latent ""] ouchdrummer said:well, i dig being alone. I sat in this year on new years and read the last book in the star wars series i was reading... wait a minute, don't listen to me, i'm pathetic... and proud of it. Being alone occurred during many of the best years of my life to date. Zero obligations. Zero confusion. Just figuring out my shit and doing what I needed to do. It ended, and I would not want it now, but I remember it fondly. Much better than years of trying to date confused people who enslaved me with obligations to their drama. Most humans are monkeys. You can call them white niggers if you prefer, but they are essentially "talking monkeys with car keys" and they act like animals. They do nothing but enslave you to their drama, even if they have a nice little flesh pocket you like to squirt your DNA into. Me, my hand, and the SciFi channel FTW.. well for me. You've got to get your own hand. |
| _______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:07pm - eric ""] dftg said: xmikex said:Cut the shit and break up with this girl. I'll give you 3-1 odds that she was with some other dude on New Years. You're probably a way nicer dude than she's used to dating, and the guy she's diddling right now is some greasebag dick who gets her juices flowing by popping his collar and revving his engine on his IROC (or whatever dumb shit that she secretly pretends to hate). She's probably reluctant to give up the security and stability of dating someone who actually gives a shit about her, but because she's a girl her whole self esteem is based off of other guys wanting to bang her, and her giving them the illusion that they can. Her indecisiveness is the only reason she wants to "take a break." That or she wants you to be the one to break up with her so she can feel better about basically stabbing you in the back. Call her bluff, man up, and kick this girl out of your life. I don't know who you are but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're better than this. Don't take any shit. listen to this guy. i second this! this is the best piece of advice you may ever get about women |
| _______________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:16pm - the_reverend ""] the best thing to do when you get out of a 5 year relationship is to get right back into another one. |
| _______________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:44pm - blue ""] brian_dc said:don't get your hopes up. Don't get obsessed. Open your eyes to other people. xmikex said:Cut the shit and break up with this girl. I'll give you 3-1 odds that she was with some other dude on New Years. You're probably a way nicer dude than she's used to dating, and the guy she's diddling right now is some greasebag dick who gets her juices flowing by popping his collar and revving his engine on his IROC (or whatever dumb shit that she secretly pretends to hate). She's probably reluctant to give up the security and stability of dating someone who actually gives a shit about her, but because she's a girl her whole self esteem is based off of other guys wanting to bang her, and her giving them the illusion that they can. Her indecisiveness is the only reason she wants to "take a break." That or she wants you to be the one to break up with her so she can feel better about basically stabbing you in the back. Call her bluff, man up, and kick this girl out of your life. I don't know who you are but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're better than this. Don't take any shit. JustinSteele said:The most important thing is to maintain a good relationship dynamic. When someone says they aren't secure in the relationship it usually has much more to do with them than it does the other person. The fact is that we're not meant to be with just one person (it's incredibly rare to find any one you get along with most of the time) and when you force it you just create an untenable situation. So, that doesn't mean give up on monogamy, just accept that both people have to be into it and want to stay together. She might come around and want you back but the dynamic will always be in her favor at that point. Probably best to let it go and try something new. No end of a relationship is a failure, they are all opportunities to learn more about yourself. the_reverend said:I realized grudges are stupid and stopped. the above statements are some of the best advice nuggets you could possibly get. wow, RTTP providing people with actual direction with matters of the heart. seriously though, the girl was more than likely either already cheating on you or already had the new guy on deck. you need to get her out of your life and move on, yeah itll suck but ya have to deal. after finding out my gf of 2+ years was cheating on me at the end of our relationship, i promptly told her to get the fuck out of my life and never talk to me ever again. couple months later, im fine if not better than ive ever been. yeah it sucked with all the betrayal blah blah blah, but id definetly rather not have people of that caliber in my life. i doubt youd want them in yours either. dont worry, shell get hers. karmas a bitch like that. |
| ____________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:48pm - Lamp nli ""] Can't take it, never could Time to end it, wish you would Friends and family, they're all gone Life for you is just a con Dig yourself a hole in the ground Push up daisies six feet down Take a dirt nap, buy the farm Inject a bubble in your aim Kill yourself, kill yourself! Why don't you kill yourself? Don't rely on no one else End it all just kill yourself! Life is just a one way ticket Everyone must go around Here's bucket go and kick it Slit your wrists without a sound When you go don't make a big deal No dramatics, don't overplay Cause don't you know that we'll all feel Better once you're gone away You're a loser, there's nothing left for you A worthless loser, at everything you do |
| __________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:50pm - Martins ""] Hey blue, what time is the show at? <3 |
| ______________________________________________ [Jan 15,2009 11:54pm - MarkFuckingRichards ""] dftg said: AUTOPSY_666 said:My girlfriend just got out of a long 5-yr bad relationship with a drunk boy and she is now ecstatic to be dating a real man. [img] I will make her my Halloween bride. you put a blonde wig and a groucho marx nose on skeletor and called it your girlfriend. PPPPPFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF |
| ___________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 1:02am - DJ DEATH ""] Interesting. I JUST had the same problem with my girlfriend for 3 years. "Im confused and don't know what i want. I need a break" Of course, this totally saddens me, but, thanks to this advice, and advice from OTHER GIRLS: I will move on. I knew three months ago she was into some other guy ( a fucking half chinese guy at that ) so, brother, listen to what some of these people are saying. It is a hurtful thing if you truely care for her. I know im down in the dumps. But, lets move on. It will be simplistic to find someone correct. |
| _________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 7:09am - sxealex ""] best advice is get mad and not sad and look at alot of boobs. |
| __________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 7:12am - sinistas ""] Trust and youll be trusted Says the liar to the fool Lust and so what if youre busted? In love and war there aint no rules Do you believe in forever? I dont even believe in tomorrow The only things that last forever Are memories and sorrow Out of sight out of mind The motto of betrayal The prophets preach to forgive and forget Im sorry, but I am unable You went to lamour saturday night Red nails and lipstick dressed two sizes two tight His tongue down your throat His hand up your skirt Yeah Im a man But it still hurts Slut Whore Cunt I know youre fucking someone else (he knows youre fucking someone else) You had cock on your mind And cum on your breath Inserted that diaphragm before you left Practicing freelance gynecology Where theres a womb theres a way With you its for free Slut Whore Cunt I know youre fucking someone else (he knows youre fucking someone else) Done it before Time after time Refused to learn your lesson Gave til it hurt Thought it was right Only fools make mistakes twice So you sit home Drinking alone Empty bottle in your hand Dont even try To sort out the lies Its worse to try to understand You make me hate myself I know youre fucking someone else (he knows youre fucking someone else) |
| _____________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 8:58am - ouchdrummer ""] and let me reiterate... fight her or your a pussy. |
| ______________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 9:25am - JustinSteele ""] fight her pussy or you're a faggot |
| ___________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 9:50am - dreadkill ""] DJ%20DEATH said:Interesting. I JUST had the same problem with my girlfriend for 3 years. "Im confused and don't know what i want. I need a break" Of course, this totally saddens me, but, thanks to this advice, and advice from OTHER GIRLS: I will move on. I knew three months ago she was into some other guy ( a fucking half chinese guy at that ) so, brother, listen to what some of these people are saying. It is a hurtful thing if you truely care for her. I know im down in the dumps. But, lets move on. It will be simplistic to find someone correct. FIGHT THE HALFBREED CHINK OR YOU ARE A PUSSY |
| ____________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 9:54am - arilliusbm ""] well DJDeath, you're going on tour soon, so there's billions of ways to ease the situation. |
| ___________________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 10:02am - largefreakatzero ""] dreadkill said: DJ%20DEATH said:Interesting. I JUST had the same problem with my girlfriend for 3 years. "Im confused and don't know what i want. I need a break" Of course, this totally saddens me, but, thanks to this advice, and advice from OTHER GIRLS: I will move on. I knew three months ago she was into some other guy ( a fucking half chinese guy at that ) so, brother, listen to what some of these people are saying. It is a hurtful thing if you truely care for her. I know im down in the dumps. But, lets move on. It will be simplistic to find someone correct. FIGHT THE HALFBREED CHINK OR YOU ARE A PUSSY No way, man. He can probably half-do karate. |
| ______________________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 10:03am - MarkFuckingRichards ""] What's strange is an ex of mine wanted to take a break, and 2 months later when she noticed other girls were into me, she wanted me back. So, maybe she'll come to her senses and come back to you. You may realize there are greener pastures though, and she'll have to learn from her mistake. |
| ____________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 10:08am - dreadkill ""] mark, i'm not a girl |
| ______________________________________________ [Jan 16,2009 10:15am - MarkFuckingRichards ""] Ken, when you start wearing the testicles in this relationship you can start calling yourself a man. |